Well, to me she looks like a deflated balloon.
Oh no, Brissles! You've said something negative about the appearance of a woman. Please stop making misogynistic comments! I'm offended
Oh no, wait a minute....you're actually saying something that is your observation...an ultimately quite true. I'm not offended anymore!
Besides, Nik looks as dodgy as hell - kind of like Justin Hayward, but with Tipp-Ex-White gnashers a bit like a certain flaaah seller.
There are so many so-called "life coaches" out there, some of whom are probably better than others. I'm not knocking counselling and positive thought, as I believe these things can be useful and important. After all, we all have situations in life that we can't necessarily change, and things we'd like to have done differently, people we'd liked to have behaved differently, all sorts of situations, disappointments and regrets.
If people get help from counselling, so be it. Personally I try just to get on with life. When losses in my family left me totally on my own I didn't seek help from anyone, I just carried on as best I could. I'm sure that if I'd wanted to seek help, I'd likely have sought the assistance of a qualified professional rather than buying a book / DVD from two false TV therapists who look plastic-surgeried up to their eyeballs!
I might tune in when they're on, though, as I could do with a good laugh!