This might sound a bit naughty, but I do wonder whether those people who proclaim that they're not sending cards this year but are donating to charity instead actually put their money where their mouths are and actually do it! This happens a lot in my work place and I get it, it can be an arduous task writing out 30 cards for colleagues and then panicking that you've forgotten someone, or you've written the wrong name on the outside of the envelope or vice versa cause you've had so many to write that your brain has scrambled! I think there's something nice about getting a good old fashioned hand written card whether it be handed to you in person or sent through the post, much more caring than a quick email or msn messenger message. They add to your Christmas decorations and like somebody said earlier it lets you know that the person you don't see is still alive! - It's reassuring. Also with the charity thing it's not a money saving thing as you can buy some really nice cards cheaply, especially if you have the foresight to buy them in sales after Christmas, yes stamps are pricey especially if you've got loads to send but I'd say they shouldn't break the bank. There's absolutely nothing wrong with donating to charity but I personally don't think it should be at the expense of making a friend, family member or colleague even feel like they matter!
