I'm female and all my younger life was spent having dreadful pain on a monthly basis. Doctor not interested, so for years stuffed myself with painkillers every month which to be honest didn't help much. Then my doctor ran off with one of his nurses so go a new one.
This one listened and I got to see a specialist at hospital. By then I was Forty. Anyway after a laparoscopy decided I had endometriosis and needed a hysterectomy. Because none of the doctors wanted to do it as they thought they would most likely damage my bladder and bowel so just had to go for check ups which were a waste of time.
Then a lady surgeon came and said she could do it and was confident she wouldn't damage anything. She was great. She did the op and damaged nothing, recovery was painful and had to go upstairs on my hands and knees. But recovered well and it was wonderful to have that pain gone
So, what bothers me about these men that want to be women is, they only want the good bits of being a woman, they don't want the other that things that can go with it and doctors ignoring you for years. I am not sure they would cope with the side of it where women's health issues are concerned. They want to be female but with none of the downside parts that go with it. I worked all through of my problems for years and didn't have time off work. I'm sorry if I sound mean about transgenders, but being female doesn't just mean wearing pretty frocks and wearing makeup. I'm sorry they feel they were born the wrong sex, but they will never ever know what it can really be like being a woman.
I'm not sorry I'm female and have never wanted to be anything else, even on a bad day.
If I have offended anyone I am sorry, just the way I feel. Perhaps if I had had no problems I would feel differently, I don't know.