Why do we have to buy something for a particular event .Today i heard them say ," you can buy it for Mother's Day " . When Mother's Day comes it will be Easter ,then ,Christmas in July ,and so on ,This commercialism ,gets on my nerves .
I was discussing this the other week with two friends. Holidays of any sort are now governed by retails companies, one is over and the shops,online,TV shopping channels all leapt to the next one straight after the current on is over. Easter Eggs out on Boxing Day(yes the cream eggs, but still eggs), thankfully QVC don't seem to push for Easter. Well Spring fashion if you can call what they sell as fashion.
One of said friends owns and runs a filling station, and said the companies want the orders in months in advance. She had all her large Easter Eggs in the storage ready to put out after Valentines. She had to have the orders in back in October and the company had them delivered early January.
We've just downsized and paid off our mortgage so we're quite comfortable, not rich but comfortable and I've got to say, QVCs opulence has always disgusted me it really has, there's no way I'd spend a weeks wages on a cake or bags of popcorn when there's kids going hungry out there, makes me uncomfortable when I see those prices QVC charge for food, amongst other things, simple things in life suit me too. :mysmilie_14:
I feel exactly the same. It's not the fact that OH and I couldn't spend the money if we wanted, but I strongly resent being ripped-off and even if I were a multi-millionaire I would feel exactly the same. I often think how the Powers That Be at Q (and probably some of the presenters) must be laughing their heads off at how gullible people are, spending pots of money on a top that looks no better than one that comes from a street market - and in many cases, nowhere near as nice as one from Primark. It's the Emperor's New Clothes, and of course the Q faithful would be queuing up to buy bottled rainwater if someone told them it was the latest 'fad'. Some of the prices they charge are little short of obscene, in my book, and I could never justify spending what they ask when a simple internet search tells me I'm being taken for a ride.
Why do we have to buy something for a particular event .Today i heard them say ," you can buy it for Mother's Day " . When Mother's Day comes it will be Easter ,then ,Christmas in July ,and so on ,This commercialism ,gets on my nerves .
it makes me fume when I hear these remarks by the sales people on Q. How anyone would consider paying £80 for a Mother's Day gift I don't know. I am happy with a nice card and I always tell my daughters not to spend money on me as it's the thought that still counts for me.It's true, and it drives me mad, too, but I'll make an exception for creme eggs as I love them! :nod: You have to be really careful buying Christmas / Easter fayre early that it doesn't go off before the occasion, I've been caught out with that before! Jill was suggesting the Elemis TSV as a possible Mother's Day gift, 80 quids worth!!
I always think with this "buy for the event" kind of thing that there's going to be someone who it will upset. I mean Valentines Day - your boyfriend just dumped you, your husband has died, you've never had a boyfriend or husband, you feel left out. Then Mother's Day, suppose you have no mum, or your mum has passed away, or your mum lives in New Zealand and you don't. Then Summer BBQs and having the neighbours round - suppose you don't know your neighbours or they make your life hell or you just don't know many folk and don't go to BBQs and then all this Trick or Treat nonsense, what if you hate kids? Then Christmas, again, what if you've no family, you don't have the neighbours in for mulled wine and you usually just get a pizza in so the mountains of food aren't relevant.
QVC create this fantasy life where everyone is comfortably off with lovely homes and families. Just not true and I think I myself fell into the trap of feeling a bit inadequate if I didn't match up (so spend more money to feel included). No more.
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