I lost my hair with chemo and when it grew back it's white/ very light grey. I couldn't be bothered with the palaver of colouring every few weeks so left it. I agree it can be aging but I always wear makeup, including a bright lippy and I only ever wear bright colours, the brighter the better as far as I'm concerned! I try to be my best version of me every day, apart from when I'm slobbing it indoors
. I have no intention of fading into the background!! I see ladies come into the garden centre where I work and they're just drab, drab, drab, no colour . It really doesn't take much effort and I bet they would feel a million dollars!