Why get so precious about saying "a wealthy gay man " ??????
Read any press report and its always...............
"a 58 year old grandmother"
"a 34 year old mother of two"
"an unemployed 23 year old student"
"a 66 year old widow"
Much as we all hate it, we are ALL categorised, and if its something out of the 'norm', then like a cartoon its invariably highlighted !
I am 65 and widowed with no kids, but I would LOVE to be described as................ "this woman who was a child of the 60's, danced around her handbag and rode a scooter with hundreds of lamps and a tiger's tail" !!!!!