Hey, the first time mum's on maternity leave are probably a fairly large part of Q's target market- or at least they should be! Of the customers likely to be watching at home during the day I would say 1. Retired people 2. People working shifts or part time, 3. Women on maternity leave, 4. People unable to work due to ill health, 5. Otherwise long term unemployed, 6. Kept women/men/independently wealthy; would be the categories of demographic.
I understand Carmel. She is probably quite close to me in age. She probably waited until she was older to settle down, not because she was particularly ambitious necessarily but because she wanted to "settle down" not "settle for". Her unborn baby is probably much planned for, and much longed- for. She probably thinks if nothing more but her growing bump and what she should buy. Let me assist- Carmel- you don't need reusable nappies. You Will you will your will rely on pampers like everyone else. Ignore anyone who tries to convince you otherwise. If you buy reusables YOU WILL end up flogging them on ebay like I did. Secondly, unless you are a cow, you will not use a breast pump. Thank god for John Lewis 90 day refund policy. You won't need to spend a fortune in Mamas and Papas, trust me. You will need muslin cloths, microwave steriliser, baby grows, and baby sleeping bags, and a baby monitor. Buy a copy of the baby whisperer, sleep when they sleep, and expect your life to NEVER be the same again. Never wish the time away no matter how hard it is or how exhausted you are. Follow your own instincts and never let anyone bully you into doing it a way that does not feel right. Borrow from friends, babies grow so bliddy fast it is not worth the money otherwise.
And finally Carmel... You probably really miss your mum right now, accept help from wherever it is offered. It won't take her place, I know. But good luck with it all, your happiness makes me smile and I for one am rooting for you.