The confidant ones always describe themselves as shy, deep down ;-)
And that's the thing you wouldn't be financing anything, a rich lover would be seeing to the tab, just to be in the presence of your charming wit. Think of all those luxurious treatments and fine wining and dining.
Well, never say never, I suppose! I am very shy, though. I spend most of my time reading the papers and listening to the radio. I'm too busy to have much interaction with anyone