Things have changed for me obviously with age, but in my youth I'd watch TOTPs religiously, tape the top 40 every Sunday, go to discos, go out and buy records so I'd always be abreast of the scene, and of course my equally youthful friends/boyfriends would be into their music so I'd hear the stuff they were playing too. Nowdays my nights out don't involve music unless I'm attending a concert and that'll always be a retro act or a retro festival. I will blame OH for a lot of my out of touchness, as he only ever listens to classical music and has no time whatsoever for anything that's not in that genre. He drives the car so the radio is always tuned into classic FM, he does all the cooking so the radio in the kitchen is always tuned into Classic FM. Even though I was brought up in a household where classical music was listened to a lot, I never really appreciated it but to be honest thanks to OH I've grown to love a lot of it and being of a certain age now I'm happy to listen to it as it can be both moving and relaxing. I'm happy to leave the modern stuff to the kids - 'cause it's not just the music, it's the lifestyle, the clubs, the gigs and I really can't be bothered to try to get into it. There's enough old stuff in my memory banks to keep me going, stuff that makes me re-live my dancing days so I'm happy!