My son has been a soldier for 27 years and recently one of closest friends also a soldier has committed suicide. I won`t go into the reasons behind that but suffice to say his death knocked my son and lots of other people for six.
Usually his funeral service would take place in the military church on the barracks and his entrance and exit from the church would be lined with his comrades and they would also carry the coffin. Many of them would also follow on to the cemetary or in this case crematorium and they would stand to attention and salute their last goodbye.
Sadly none of this was allowed to happen. His funeral was on Friday, no service allowed on barracks, no lining the route or escorting his coffin and only 10 people allowed in the crematorium which consisted of his parents, his wife, his kids and his siblings.
A long time Military wife, they`d been married almost 20 years and his 2 children aged 14 and 11 missed out on the love and support from his military family and his military family missed out on their last goodbye to him.