Sorry but this comes across as a bit patronising. Of course I was aware of physically what was happening, but I didn't realise the effect it would have on the functioning of my brain and memory which is crucial for the type of job I have. It's not just about 'plumbing' but hormones and the withdrawal of chemicals that for many women impacts their mental health. I don't think we should put women down for speaking up about this, providing they are doing it for the right reasons. I am only aware of Davina McCall's connection with this topic because of the Channel 4 documentary she did on menopause - which is excellent BTW and I would recommend to any woman in her 40s, 50s and 60s to watch on catch up.I'm sorry you reached a time in mid life when you hadn't realised what was happening to your body. I have to admit that the likes of periods. sex (which was always giggled about) and 'the change' were discussed with my mates when growing up. I cant ever remember a time when it was never mentioned, and so I don't recognise this business of it being a 'taboo' subject. For years - long before St Davina, magazines have written copious articles about our plumbing, and anyway didn't Andrea McClean beat her to it a couple of years ago with her own book on the menopause ?