I'm 58 years old and I went on a works do this Sunday which involved a fair bit of alcohol, all the ladies in the group were in their 50's and 60's. Some of them became extremely loud and when they started eyeing up and making loud suggestive comments about a group of lads sitting nearby (30 somethings at a guess), I started to feel a little embarrassed and uncomfortable. I didn't join in the conversation and was glad when the guys got up and left. The conversation then turned to vibrators, sexual conquests and pleasuring oneself, seriously I found it quite distressing. Again I didn't join in the conversation and when one of the other ladies said she'd better go as she had an early start, I also made my excuses and left. I'm all for having fun at my age, but I want to grow older gracefully. Is it just me who's the old fuddy duddy? I'm not quite ready for the knitting circle, but I'm certainly not into this sort of thing!!!