Well I'm back! To be honest it wasn't terrible. She'd instructed those coming by public transport to turn up between 12 noon and 1 and that the locals can turn up a little later if wish as they obviously are able to stay longer. I arrived just before 12.30 and I was the first to arrive, I sat and had a drink and a chat with my friend which was quite nice. Half an hour later one of her work colleagues arrived alone, she was supposed to be coming with another girl from work, my friend asked "where's Chloe"? "I dunno said Emily, I thought she was gonna be getting the same train as me" My friend asked have you heard from her? Have you messaged her? Emily said yes but I've not had a reply, anyway about half hour later Chloe called to tell my friend I'm so sorry but I've literally just woken up, I went out for a few drinks last night, so I'm afraid I won't be coming, what with the trains etc etc! Then one of the locals texted to say she'd be late 'cause she'd woken up with a banging head but she'll be coming still - She turned up in her pyjamas! and then spent what seemed like an hour loudly telling everybody about her antics in the pub the night before. Another friend turned up, she'd driven over but was planning to stay overnight, and then another couple of locals arrived. Basically, it was nowhere near as bad as last year's but I was rather bored if I'm honest, but at least I did manage to have a couple of decent conversations with people.
This is why I rarely try and organise group activities or parties, people are too unreliable and flaky. I'm far happier meeting a friend one to one, or maybe a couple of friends for coffee and a chat!