It is that. I still hope Alex Knowles is at least prepared to comment on the issue. He participates constructively here on a regular basis and I don’t feel it is an unreasonable question to ask his views on. I genuinely don’t think he would use that direct tactic. Yes - skirt around the issue of grief by perhaps saying this type of product can provide some level of comfort and some reassurance even, to those feeling low and COLD..But to mention loss of a partner specifically..PLEASE…don’t do it. Unless you’ve lost one, you really wouldn’t be telling them a weighted blanket can ease the devastating emotional pain of the experience. I have tried to move on with my life, met a new person I have been with now for three and a half years and traveled extensively with. But the pain and the flashbacks of the loss never completely goes away. You push it to the background, but it is there and hits you at certain times and on a regular basis. Believe me…a weighted blanket would not help with that.