Years ago, when I could still get around, I was at a the restaurant of hotel in Paris called ‘Le Parc’.
Just like you folks,we like meat to be well-cooked, so we ordered it that way. Well, the chef took it as a personal insult! He came out of the kitchen, sat down at our table and (very kindly, but very insistently) explained how he’d been a chef for years and years, and well-done food could be cooked by anyone, but only a chef of his ability could cook rare meat and it be still both tender and delicious.
I thought he was either going to cry, to hit me, or to sling me out when I wouldn’t change my mind and still asked for it well done!!
To this day, I wonder what he will have done to it back in his kitchen after I didn’t change my mind…