I'd be the same as Weathergirl, but then I won't spend anything on myself, so I'd defo decide on one to send back. Thing is, if I couldn't make my mind up, I'd return them both. I take it you do want to keep one of them? I'm not a lover of hearts, so I would go for the circle and, the fact that it is epiphany would, I think, swing it for me. Having said that, I prefer gold, so would I go for the hearts? For myself, I don't know. Do you spend a lot on yourself, throughout the year? If not excessively, and if you're not struggling financially - i.e. if the kids don't desperately need anything - keep them both, and deny yourself something else. I do think you should decide between the two, however, and keep just one; you don't really need two new pendants! Just my opinion, though!