Laura L'occitane Earle
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When I was in my teens, I believed I was ugly and fat and used to dream of having plastic surgery - didn't help that I had two beautiful skinny sisters. After going through anorexia and depression, two things saved me - the love of a good man (my husband of 19 years) and being pregnant with my daughter (never felt fat after that!).
Thank goodness I grew into myself, and learned to make the best of what I had. I still think we live in a looks obsessed culture, and sometimes I wish I didn't care so much about my appearance. I always seem to be trying to create the perfect wardrobe and find the next product that will make me look gorgeous. So much of my self worth and confidence seems to correlate with how I look on that particular day. There are still bad days when I hate myself, and don't want to face the world, but I have learned to take care of myself.
One good thing, I always get mistaken for being younger and, shallow me, it does give me a boost. Those chubby cheeks and round face have finally come into their own!!
Happy 50th anniversary, Bettyboo, and good wishes to all who are feeling poorly.
Thank goodness I grew into myself, and learned to make the best of what I had. I still think we live in a looks obsessed culture, and sometimes I wish I didn't care so much about my appearance. I always seem to be trying to create the perfect wardrobe and find the next product that will make me look gorgeous. So much of my self worth and confidence seems to correlate with how I look on that particular day. There are still bad days when I hate myself, and don't want to face the world, but I have learned to take care of myself.
One good thing, I always get mistaken for being younger and, shallow me, it does give me a boost. Those chubby cheeks and round face have finally come into their own!!
Happy 50th anniversary, Bettyboo, and good wishes to all who are feeling poorly.