You sound nice, May. I am happy to talk all things Kipling, even though I only have 3 bags because I recycle mine on ebay from time to time. My Defea is a definite "keeper" though, and right now I am just addicted to the cafe latte colour. I first got it in the last TSV - the Adley- a really handy bag, I use it loads and loads. I also have since bought 2 purses in the cafe latte colour. It's just gorgeous, and I think I like it better than any of the bright coloured ones. I usually remove the monkeys but this bag looks better with it and I like where the monkey is "located" if you see what I mean. My little boy who is just 2, likes playing with the kipling monkeys. Great when waiting in doctors surgery.