I hope so too Louby.
However, I'm the same in real life - only my close friends know. With anyone else, I don't discuss my personal life, and, because I don't look gay, nobody asks.
True story though - we were having a fence fitted last month, and the guy came in to use the loo, and said it was a very feminine house. (Whatever that looks like) He had previously dealt with my partner when ordering the fence, and basically asked what the setup was before saying - 'I was gonna ask if you're one of them, but you don't look it - not that it matters'. I didn't go into it with someone that uses terminology such as 'one of them'. lolololol :tongue: