Lol. I take 14 pairs of pants, lightweight dresses and a black zip up cardie. The dresses go from day to evening. I have one pair of flip flops, one pair of neutral toned shoes for evening that matches all my dresses. Swim wear stuffed in the shoes. The zip up cardie I wear on the plane with cut off combats. I decant all my toilettries into smaller bottles and only take my small make up bag, with just bronzer, lip gloss, eye primer and mascara inside, leave foundation at home. I hand wash stuff out there and let it dry on balcony. My Kipling Ludza for the airport, and smaller kipling criss body.
That said, I havent been abroad with the kids yet as they are just 2 and 7 months respectively. Its impossible to travel light with children.
Oh and the weekender bag was the size of a normal large holdall, not what I would describe as a weekend or overnight bag really.