I think collecting starts in childhood, it's a fun hobby. The stickers, the marbles, the fossils, the glittery ponies. As adults we go one of 4 ways. We stop collecting altogether, and just buy stuff that we intend to use, and flog or chuck what we don't. Or we collect "something", be it candles, bears, train sets, dolls, ceramic ornaments etc. Or we are like my mum, a child of the early fifties, brought up by parents who knew what it meant to have very little, so made-do-and-mended, don't throw it away cos it may come in handy for something. The parents have tons of stuff in their attics, my old doll's pram, sewing patterns off Prima or Womans Weekly. Knitting patterns. Yes she has kept them all. Or some become a problematic hoarder, the OCD illness with piles of newspaper and trash that covers every inch of floor space and reaches the ceiling.
Personally I have an aversion to clutter. My house gets messy but I have a tipping point. When I have too much make up I chuck it or sell it. I can't bring myself to collect. The only collections I own are my Nat West Pigs and my album of PG tips cards from the only one I managed to fill!
I think dolls are creepy unless my 4 year old is playing with it. I genuinely don't understand adults who collect things. But that is just me, with no disrespect intended. Those who have hundreds of Yankee Candles, on display in a Yankee Candle cabinet they paid £300 for, the candles costing many thousands of pounds if they added it up, I don't get that either. I love my smelly candles like the best of them but after all it is just wax. It is meant to be lit and enjoyed. I overheard a bloke walking past the Yankee Candle display with his girlfriend and she was interested in the candles. He said "you might as well set fire to a £20 note." I thought "what a controlling ******" but part of me could see his point. Each to their own, but tempered with a heavy dose of common sense and moderation, would be my motto.
I concur totally, re yankee candle. I prefer village to yankee, but my reason for buying both, is utilitarian. They have a strong scent, and are good quality. This is why I USE them. I have seen posters on fb, showing photos of dozens of candles, and find this unbelievably wasteful, as they are not going to burn half of them. I can understand (to a degree) wanting to locate, then buy, certain exclusives, but to burn. I do not see the point of collecting candles.
As long as you gain pleasure from your chosen collectable, and can afford it, you are harming no-one. I read a thread n fb, started by a CB fan, who was angry, that some collectors, had the selfish nerve, to buy more than one of a bear, and - as if that isn't bad enough - to post a photo of the twin - this is how they are known - bears, where collectors who are unable to buy even one, endure agony, having to look at the photo! A tad extreme.