I'm afraid I'm guilty of wearing my pale yellow wedding band next to a white eek.
I met my DH when I was so young,and still at school.We got engaged and back then,no one,like ever,had a white metal wedding ring.Silver back then was classed as very "inferior" and platinum was so rare,it certainly wasn't "on the high street" like it is now - and no internet to buy it!!
I'd been married a good few years until all the "whites" became popular nearing the millennium
So when I got married I had a yellow gold wedding band,engagement ring and later on an eternity ring.My wedding ring is just a plain band,my eternity ring I still love to bits and my engagement is very small and petite and not what I would choose today,if I'm honest - but back then,I was young and petite and it suited me.
in fact if I would do my wedding again today,I would look very different and have very different things compared to the way I did it as a young bride.But thats life isn't it?
Forward to today,my jewellery taste is completely different.I love anything bling and sparkly.I love my white metals and almost hate of whats left of my yellow gold jewellery (I sold a lot a couple of years back).I now wear completely white metals - but just cannot bear to take my wedding ring off,or change it.
its part of me,it matches Mr RD's and I think he would be heartbroken if I were to change it.It just feels like it should be there.
I do have the AY diamonique ring and I love it.I have been known to take my wedding ring off for "functions" and wear that instead of my wedding ring...but it doesn't feel right.
So (in a long way,sorry lol) I now wear my plain gold band and an eek engagement style ring with it.And if I'm honest I really like it.When you look at my hand quickly,the metals seem to mix - you're not sure whether they're both gold or both white - its not until you look closely you see.
I've never been questioned why I've mixed them - in fact my colleagues have complimented them - my nan wears her gold wedding band with a (real) platinum diamond that was her mums - people just don't question these things.
I do actually have a gold cariad clogau ring which I still love-its about the only gold piece of jewellery that I still love - and I'm always searching for the perfect white eek to wear with that,so I can still continue to wear it and enjoy it.
I have heard JF comment on how much she loves and wears only white metals now - and she admits that her wedding and engagement rings are the only gold she still wears - because you just don't take them off do you? Although like I say,mines now only my wedding band.
Lots of my friends and colleagues have had their DH's buy them new white wedding sets,but I don't want that.