I get really really mad when organisations such as The Black Police Officers Association are allowed. Imagine the uproar if something was called The White .....
Surely it should just be The Police Officers Association, no colour no gender.
This is only one example of many.
Within the next 5 years a straight white male will be an ethnic minority- do you think they will get all the positive discrimination freebies? No way.
Why can’t people just be people. There are many “minority” jobs where they have not got it on merit but to fill the obligatory quotas.
Exactly!
Isn't there some kind of black music awards, too? I can't remember the name of it but it annoys the hell out of me as it's obviously racist. Or at least it is to me as I feel racism works in every way, not just whites being racist against blacks.
I'm rural and never saw a black person until I was 8 and in hospital. My doctor was a huge, very dark-skinned black man with the largest, whitest teeth and boomiest deep voice I'd ever seen or heard - I was absolutely terrified! I wasn't being racist, just a scared child, which this man understood as he did his best to reassure me. When I left the hospital I left behind an amazing man who had become a friend.
That's maybe why I was horrified when the first coloured couple moved into our village and some boys on the school bus threw a lit box of matches at their children who were walking on the road as we passed. I was furious and got them expelled with the fuss I made. I was told later that the boys had heard their parents discussing the couple in a racist way. I'd never heard of racism until then and didn't actually know what it was until a lot later.
A few years later I started a weekend job and came across sexism. I was 12, but being tall, I looked older. I was groped, talked down to, had disgusting comments and suggestions made to me every day I worked. I told my mum and was told to ignore them and get on with it.
About that time my best friend put a lot of weight on. Then I became aware of "fatism" and that was probably the worst. Her life was made absolutely miserable at school. We'd catch a bus to the local town to go where total strangers would approach her and call her awful names. I met up with her at a re-union a few years ago and it seems people never change. The men there still called her by her old horrible nicknames. She's still overweight but had lost quite a bit, but the fatism still raised it's head. The next time I go to a re-union it will be a female-only re-union as I have no wish to be in the same room as these men that should know better (no co-incidence that this group of men were the same ones that threw the matches).
Unfortunately, "isms" still exist. My friend was so dignified when handling those men when all I wanted to do was cry for her and slap them. She could teach Marve (and many others) how to handle being on the sharp end of an ism. And moaning about something that doesn't really concern you and that you've not managed to grasp the truth of like Marve did isn't it.
Ah, Donna. That's awful. Does it still go on? I had to tick a box saying what religion I was when I had my first civil service job. I couldn't understand why I was being asked that - I still can't. Throughout history so many people have gone to war for religion. It's awful that we still haven't learned our lesson as human beings. What really upsets me, though, is most of us can live together peacefully - until someone starts stirring the **** and banging a drum. Bit like Marve is on a small scale. Normal people get on with trying to right wrongs quietly, not twatter about it making an idiot of yourself. Save the hysterical outrage for something else, Marve. Maybe consumer rights seeing as you did your fair share of mis-selling?