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Also, stop obsessing. Just cos you are always looking at it doesn't mean everyone else is. They probably aren't. Use floaty scarves if you like, play up your eyes/hair/great personality/soh/cleverness etc.
Agree. I always remember a quote from Christoper Drummond a US makeup artist. It was about dark circles which I have(not the where is the dark circle sort they show on QVC), he said no one but you notices them. People are not pointing at you in the street in horror. Same applies to every defect we see in ourselves. I know I have bumped into friends and went, "Oh, I have no makeup on today." I get the reply they never even noticed Women are far too harsh on ourselves and it is the beauty companies that have done this to us over the years. You have a baby and if not back to size 2 in three days the tabloids are point fingers and other women saying oh she looks so fat! That is the celebs and it rubs down to everyday normal women feeling they must meet a certain standard or they are crap.