The model Jo Skinner is back on QVC!!! She is on the Bobbi Brown show just now.
Sorry to hear that May, and the situation you find yourself in. I would imagine that most of us have been in such a position, I know I have (and currently in a similar one). My brother's partner is Tinkerbelle personified when others are around, but out of earshot of others she has a sarcastic tongue towards me. For my brother's sake I've bitten my tongue for not wishing to cause a scene - and she knows this; I suffered this for almost a year, and then I took my brother to one side and told him I wasn't prepared to put up with her antics. Being 'blokey' he hadn't realised there was a problem !, typical. So I've told him if it happens again and there are ructions then at least he knows what it will be about.
Ugh Brissles that is awful �� Sorry to hear that and well done for alerting your brother...I was in the same situation with my brothers then wife ...on their wedding day ...her and her chief bridesmaid were awful towards me in the day ...I had to zone out ..I didn't want to cause a fuss ...but one day about a year later I told her straight ...it just came out ..I couldn't let it go any more ..a longer story than I can explain here but they are not togetheranymore although speaking terms for the kids at least but ..I don't see either another long story lol ....the first incident immentioned I caught out on messanger ( I have left the social media site since ) her and an old school male friend after having met up after 43 years we had a lovley day and hubby came along ..the male is married and the female divorcing ...had a few hints she was being hostile but I had to ignore it as I didn't want to spoil my happy school memories ....anyway ..couple of weeks later I caught a conversation of them being really spiteful about my dinners (the make started it which is really bizarre as they had not ever tasted my cooking ) andnshowing emoticons of being sick and other bodily functions ...I was totally gutted shocked and felt sick ...I didn't respond how anybody would.normaly would ..shock I think ...they saw I had joined the meesanger group (which I set up to send like gifs of their names as a kind gesture ) he apologised and she typed " oh you've come back " .. I said that's ok ...and left ...cut a long story short they both sent me a Christmas card and I returned one but..I felt odd ...not the same ..I had been elated at finding them again and this betrayal hurt so badly ..nobody has a clue as far as I know what they are like ...and I told myself after a while to run and don't look back ...after a few months of seeing how I really felt..my hubby has been amazingly supportive ...I'm getting through it now and there is a lot worse in life I know ..it threw me off track that's for sure .. didn't see it coming after having such a pleasant reunion and chats about our childhoods ...phew ..I should have told them where to go but I thank goodness I kept my dignity lol.....
People can be very mean and nasty May. As Brissles said, I bet a lot of us have been in a position during our life where we have come across horrible people. I know I have. You can get very hurt and upset - and end up thinking about it all the time wondering what you have done wrong, when in fact, you haven't done anything. I always reckon they have sad lives and want to make themselves somehow feel superior to others, and go about this by being two-faced, mean and nasty. Let's hope Karma catches up with them all.
The world is full of nasty people and you have two choices, let them win and hurt you or ignore them completely as you just laugh sympathetically.
I get on great with my daughter in laws, we're like best mates, we go shopping and do lunch together and sometimes with us three mums, they have a daughter each and I've got the two beautiful sons, but I haven't spoken to my mother in law for about twenty years, we got on when we first met about thirty years ago, but you know when you just get that feeling that you're not approved of? (how very dare she?! :mysmilie_17 so I made the conscious decision to just avoid her, I told my husband it would be more awkward for him if I didn't, so we happily settled into it.
Always speak up, if you let it fester it just builds up and explodes, so take them to one side and pull them up over it, if it makes them embarrassed and squirm, all the better.
Yes wise words Shopperholic thank you ....and I have been learning the basics of meditation ..love it ..really helping and I recemmend it for anybody that even might just be a little curious ..wonderful stuff ..one method taught calmly addressing people who are "unsettling" you another day ..biding your time ..as hubby calls it ...and it is so relaxing thank you for your input you. Lovley people xx
Yes meditation sounds lovely I'll look into that, I've also been looking into Yoga classes, I think I'll give meditation and Yoga a go, hope you find your peace.
You too :0) ...good luck
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Is she the one who went to Ideal World and said on air that QVC got rid of her because she was too fat!!??
Didn't she have a fall out with Charlie Brook?The actual term she used was TOO BIG. QVC thought she was Too Big. Now on here there was the debate did she meant over weight or too big for her boots? She started her own agency(not sure if she still has it?), so was she pushing her clients for jobs on QVC. When on shows fashion or beauty she did talk a lot as I remember, were the other models said a few words or nothing. All her and Tanya going riding or going riding with Ali Young etc. I did not mind it as it was not all hard sell when she was chatting to the presenters.
She was only on IW for a very short period and bang gone. So whether IW thought they would get one up on QVC by hiring her? It did not last more than a few shows, the same as some brands that went to IW from QVC only last one or two shows and gone. Some have stayed longer though.