Hi Snuffles - lovely name
I hope your life is happier now - stress and devastation causes all sorts of horrible things to happen physically as well as emotionally doesn't it.
I found nail envy made my nails look yellowy and wore polish for years to hide the yellowness.
I only have a couple of ridged nails and buff them once a month but my hands and nails are sooooo dry.
They can sometimes get stained still just by life I guess so i just soak them in jif lemon oil in a small bowl (Tia the cat's milk bowl but don't tell her
but that's only about once a month or a scrub using my whitening toothpaste.
All I use daily is either Dr Hauschka's neem nail oil but my current fave found in the green beauty bible is nail oil by Green hands - I love it so much I bought 6 for the price of four. I don't have greasy hands with it at all it just absorbs as my nails are dry. The bottle is very well designed you just tap onto each nail and one drop comes out each time. I tap onto my three fingers and thumb (i do have five fingers
) the little nail I just use the excess that's left. I do that at least in the morning and at night and sometimes in the day but i do find the results last for a few hours at least.
With the green hands oil my nails have never looked better, the whites whiter and pinky bit better probably from the bit of massage i do when i put the nail oil on.
My nails used to be sooooo stained from wearing nail polish they were almost orange despite wearing base coat and i'm sure it's because no air ever got to them - when i first stopped wearing nail polish they actually ached for a couple of weeks as i think they'd lost all their natural protection.
Now they grow so fast i have to file them - i prefer short nails - at least twice a week - wish my hair grew as fast
I would never use nail polish now and i save lots of money HTH x