Surely the point of women's lib - or any kind of liberation/equality etc is that you are free to choose what you do. Not that you are locked in to being super-efficient, super-domesticated, super ambitious and super-perfect? Unless you want to be, of course. :thinking:
Agree with you about freedom to choose but I just can't understand why anyone would choose to develop a persona of a clueless air-head and be proud of it? I never understand why men marry stupid women. I Is it just insecurity/need to control someone/feel superior? They can't respect them, surely.