Even sadder are the ones where they return to the decluttered home to find it in as bad or worse a state than before :sad:
In most of these cases, as with other compulsive behaviour, a person has to recognise they have a problem and seek help... and be willing to follow advice and treatment plans. I would imagine that in some cases they've been "overpersuaded" and therefore the whole exercise is deeply traumatic and destructive for them.
It is reassuring that you aren't as bad as you could be... but sobering to realise that you can end up living in a deathtrap courtesy of being unable to relinquish items of no further use - either from lurking bugs and vermin, or avalanches of precarious piles, or from being unable to keep yourself and your clothing clean, or feed yourself, and the growing isolation as you cannot have people around... overall, a terrible situation to be in.
I'm busy trying to see the bigger picture through my chaos at the moment.
Tonight I am going through food to see if it is in date or out of date. My food recycling collection is tomorrow morning, so I can begin to get rid of the out of date stuff.
Depending on how that goes, I've got a final round of clothes to declutter.
If I fly through that, there are the shoes...
The list of what I still have to wade through is massive, but I have a plan for how to tackle it all.
My best book recommendations so far:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00I0C46BO/?tag=shoppingcom03-21
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0186O2N2O/?tag=shoppingcom03-21
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01M2YEVDG/?tag=shoppingcom03-21
I have a few other books I'm going through, but these ones so far have struck a chord with me.
There are also some great decluttering resources on youtube, including a really nice professional decluttering consultant from Houston Texas - she has a load of talks on you tube :
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=gayle+goddard